Expert: Bill Hajdu - 12/3/2004

Question
My name is tom 1-21-62, I have a new friend and I can't seem to connect with Kathi 7-1-1968 I am interested in finding out if we have a chance at being friends or am I just a passing distraction for her, I may need to follow up with another question depending on the outcome.  Thank you very much.

Answer
Hi Tom,

You were born during the year of the Metal Ox, month of the Metal Ox and day of the Earth Sheep.

Kathi was born during the year of the Earth Monkey, month of the Earth Sheep and jour of the Water Monkey.

From a Chinese astrology perspective this match has a compatibility rating of 34%, significantly below average. Your Ox month sign is the worst possible match for Kathi's Sheep month sign. Also, neither of you has any Wood in your charts, which means you are not likely to be willing to make the compromises so necessary to maintain a healthy relationship.

You have two signs from the Ox-Snake-Rooster compatibility group, and she has none. She has two signs from the Rat-Dragon-Monkey group, and you have none. It is thus not likely you will be able to satisfy each other's needs.



This match has some good things in it, but to be honest it is not likely to last in the long term. You can do a lot better.

Looking at your three signs, the best match for you is someone born in the year of the Snake, the best being 1953, altho 1965 is good too.

If you would like to learn more about your signs, i highly recommend Theodora Lau's The Handbook of Chinese Horoscopes. Also, please visit my site, www.firepig.com. If you sign up for the free (trial) subscription service, you can check out any of your relationships yourself with our relationship calculator.

Thank u for your question.