AboutBill Hajdu Expertise Chinese Astrology. I`ve done Chinese astrology for over 19 years, pimary experience Ming Shu style. I am NOT a psychic. I do comment on relationships, career, personality analysis and life cycle chi, i.e., energy level and influences at each of the five stages of life.
Experience I've studied Chinese astrology for almost 18 years now and done several thousand charts. My specialty is four pillars method, particularly as applied to evaluating relationships. My next step is to learn Purple Star astrology. It identifies many more chart details, but accurate readings are time consuming and dependent upon a lifetime of acquired experience.
Expert: Bill Hajdu Date: 6/13/2007 Subject: Relationship
Question Hi. My name is Janis, born December 9, 1958. What can you tellme about Jeff, born July 13, 1957, and what kind of relationship we can expect? Er became involved very wuickly and very unexpectedly fell in love fast. However, his wife died 8 months ago, and he asked for time alone as he felt he did not honor her death long enough. Whatcan we/I expect?
Thanks
Answer Hi Janis,
You were born during the year of the Earth Dog, month of the Water Pig and day of the Metal Monkey.
Jeff was born during the year of the Fire Rooster, month of the Fire Sheep and day of the Fire Dog.
From a Chinese astrology perspective, this match has a 63% favorable compatibility rating, which is very good. This match has a significantly, above average chance of lasting and bringing you the happiness you seek.
There's only one problem i see in your charts---element balance. He has a lot, perhaps excess, of Fire, and you don't have any. He is probably very charismatic, the cheerleader type, and you the opposite. You may find that you are very different, and it could draw you apart.
A lot depends on your hour sign, which we don't know the time of your birth. If you have Fire in that sign, all is well. If he has more Fire it could be a red flag. You could be bothered by what might be his hot temper, or he might want to find a more exciting partner.
It's certainly a relationship worth pursuing.
If you would like to know more about your signs, I highly recommend Theodora Lau's The Handbook of Chinese Horoscopes. Also, please visit my site, www.firepig.com. If you would like a more detailed analysis, you can order a relationship comparison reading at the site for a modest cost.