Expert: Bill Hajdu - 9/19/2007

Question
Hello I was born on August 18th, 1986 at 3:30am. I was wondering if you could tell me something about my relationship interactions and what I should look out for.

Answer
Hi Maheen,

You were born during the year of the Fire Tiger, month of the Fire Monkey, day of the Wood Horse and hour of the Fire Tiger.

There are two important things you need to know as you have good potential to have satisfying relationships, but there are significant challenges that could prevent you from reaching it.

First, your elements are very unbalanced. You have a lot of Fire in your chart and no Water or Earth. The first requirement of your success, then, is to find a partner who is balanced, who will lend stability to the relationship. This is especially given your strong Fire and weak Earth. Practicality is not likely to be your strength, so you need this trait in a partner. Also, your lack of Water indicates difficulty with communications. You need a partner who is good in this area but not overly talkative.

Second, given your sign mix, you will be most happy with someone born during the year of the Dog, four years older or eight years younger than you, or the year of the Dragon, two years younger or ten years older than you.

If you would like to know more about relationships, I highly recommend Shelly Wu's Chinese Sexual Astrology. Also, please visit my site, www.firepig.com or www.onlinechineseastrology.com. There you can order a relationship comparison reading if there is a specific relationship about which you are concerned.

Thank u for your question.