Expert: Bill Hajdu - 9/4/2006

Question
I am a 2o-year old girl.My date of birth is 21/6/1986.I loved someone(same age
12/1/1986) for some monthes but he didn't know that I love him.All his words to
me and all his actions were showing that he also loves me.Then he knew from my
friends that I admire him and he told me that we are not more than friends and
that he just cares about me as his friend and sister not more.I was shocked
after hearing these words from him and I decided not to talk to him again.After
that he began to ask my friends about me and we began to chat again on the
internet.I feel that I can't stop talking to him,but sometimes I feel that I
can't deal with this person,other times I feel that I just want to ask on him to
be sure he is fine.I can't understand myself.He always says to me that he treats
me as any other girl as a normal friend but I still feel that he carries some
special feelings to me.I began to be crazy.All my friends say that i have to
decide what I want and that I shouldn't talk with him again because his
personality is the total opposite of mine.I got convinced by their words and I
stop talking with him for some time but again at the end I always return and
talk with him not as friends but just talking about any thing to the extent that
sometime our talking is very trivial and not important but he always says to me
that he appreciate my character and that he don't want ever to lose me.By the
way I totally understand that he can't be my partner at all as he is from a
totally different society and his way of living is totally opposite to me,the
only common between us is that we both love hearing soft music and songs.He also
said to me and to my friends that he never felt that he loves me.I just don't
know why he is enjoying to be not direct and to play with my heart.But I feel
that he could be changed to be a good person because I always feel that he has
some good characteristics inside him and I am sure of that.I don't understand
any thing please help me and say to me what could happen? and what should I do
with him? How can I decide with my self what to do?!!!!

Thanks Inadvance for your help,
Booba.  

Answer
Hi Booba,

You were born during the year of the Fire Tiger, month of the Wood Horse and day of the Fire Monkey. He was born during the year of the Wood Ox, month of the Earth Ox and day of the Fire Dragon.

From a Chinese astrology perspective this match has significantly less than a 50-50 chance of lasting and bringing you the happiness you seek.

Advice? Well, you probably should listen to what he said and understand you will not be more than friends with him.

Meanwhile keep your eyes open, as you can do a lot better.

If you would like to learn more about your signs, i highly recommend Theodora Lau's The Handbook of Chinese Horoscopes. Also, please visit my site, www.firepig.com. While there sign up for the free (trial) subscription. Then you can access our relationship compatibility calculator and check out all your relationships yourself.

Thank you for your question.