Expert: Bill Hajdu - 12/6/2004

Question
i would like to know where my life is headed with my childrens father. im not sure what time of info you need. i was born 6/5/78 and he was born 11/11/72. we have been together 3.5 years and have 3 kids together.

thanks for your insight!!! :)

Answer
Hi Robin,

You were born during the year of the Earth Horse, month of the Fire Snake, and day of the Earth Dog.

He was born during the year of the Water Rat, month of the Metal Pig and day of the Fire Horse.

From a Chinese astrology perspective this match has a 30% favorable compatibility rating. This is significantly below average.

To be honest your chances of staying together for the long term are not good. This is heightened by your year (Horse) and month (Snake) signs, both of which tend to leave situations that do not bring satisfaction to them.

The worst kinds of matches in Chinese astrology are those where the ages are six years different, as are yours. Also, your month signs are six months apart, again the worst possible. I'm sorry to say you two just have different ways of viewing the world and are not likely to be able to be able to come to a meeting of the minds.

If you wouldl like to know more about your signs i highly recommend Theodora Lau's The Handbook of Chinese Horoscopes. Also, please visit my site, www.firepig.com. While there sign up for the free (trial) subscription service. You will then at no cost be able to use our relationship calculator to evaluate any relationship yourself whenever you see a need.

Thank you for your question.