Expert: Bill Hajdu - 7/30/2005

Question
Hello, my birthday is 4/28/49, 4:56pm in Cleveland, Ohio. Do you see romantic relationship with a man in my chart? Thanks, Sharon

Answer
Hi Sharon,

You were born during the year of the Earth Ox, month of the Earth Snake, day of the Metal Monkey and hour of the Metal Monkey.

Your indicators of family happiness total four, slightly below average (4.8).

You will have to make some (extra) effort, but there is no reason why you shouldn't have more prospects.

There are, however, three things in your chart that suggest it will require some effort and insight.

First, the Ox lady (your year sign) is the lady most likely to choose the wrong guy. You should always get an outside opinion from someone you trust and who is wise before committing yourself to a relationship.

Second, you don't have much Water in your chart. Water is for communications, an important factor in relationships. If there is one area you should work at, this is it.

Third, You are now transitioning from mid-life to retirement. Your chi (energy/life force) level drops at this time in your life---from your strongest to a more normal level. This means it will feel and probably be more difficult for you to take advantage of opportunities and to deal with challenges. This "extra" effort will also have to be made to create a successful relationship.

The short answer to your question is it's going to take a bit of work on your part, but you should be able to have a romantic relationship in your future.

If you would like to learn more about your signs, i highly recommend Theodora Lau's The Handbook of Chinese Horoscopes. Also, please visit my site, www.firepig.com. While there sign up for the free (trial) subscription service. Then you can access our relationship compatibility calculator and check out all your relationships, past and present.

Thank you for your question.