Expert: Dr Billy Levin - 10/22/2008

Question
Hi there i am looking for further info on not having a biological father specifically in preschool years. Something my mother finally confirmed at age 21, my father was not my biological father. I was relieved and satisfied to have my suspicions confirmed.

I have been conducting research into “Effects of not having your biological father in preschool years.”
It has been suggested that this lack of biological father could have a strong link to substance abuse and addictive type behaviors. I am unsure why or even the authenticity of this claim.

I find it amazing so many people take the time to answer stranger’s questions, and I would truly value your opinions theories or any relevant comments.
Thanks so much


Answer
A very good question but I would   need more information about the circumstances that brought about the biological father's absence and the relationship and degree of bonding between you and the substitute father. Has he adopted you officially. If the biological father had a neurological dysfunction like ADHD that could be inherited then you might have some of these tendencies. On the other hand with no inherited tendency to a dysfunction and a good relationship with both current parents your chances of delinquency would be minimal. If for example there is an inherited condition like ADHD that is recognised and effectively treated the chances of you straying are also minimal. Don't forget you also have the opportunity to make a good life for yourself if you choose. In my opinion you should have been told when you were a toddler and at 21 years of age!