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dear sir
i am 27 yaers old.and how do i get a boyfreinds.any guy i likes doesn,t facny me and i don,t wnat to force issue.
i never even got first kiss.i have weight problem and very low self esteem.guys are always boosting to me about all the girls they have been with and i don,t know why they tell me.may be i just dont appeal to them as girlfreind material may be more iike a freind .
i don,t how i make my self girlfreind material if i don,t what it is.i,d i am unattrctive looking since i am able to accomplish a single boyfreind in 12 long yaers doesn,tmuch about .i feel letout and alone.i never even got my first kiss and i am 27 yaers old.
that really bad news isn,t .
guys go girls who lowcut tops and shorts skirts and see thru top which isn,t me at all.
i,d to be sophicatsed,sexy and elegant and not trashy .may men don,t go for that, i thnik men are more intsested in teenage girls and porn actress then very average and very plain like me.
can you help me .its unfair why i am so left out.that i can,t find a boyfreind i,d like.
its always a case i like him and he rejects me same old story.
may be guys aren,t suppose to be attrat to me .its not like any i do make a diifference.a guy i like for once just for once i,d like to get it right instead of wrong all the time..
can you help
Hello Louise!
You've asked me this question untold numbers of times and I've answered it.
The problem is that you don't WANT to have these things. Otherwise you'd have taken my advice a long time ago.
Best regards...
Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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