Expert: Lanay Stockstill - 10/16/2008

Question
I see this girl in my gym every now and then, who i think is stunning. If i was to randomly go up to her and say "Excuse me, i just wanted to come over and say that i think you're absolutely gorgeous". Would she like that  because this is rare ?
Is this to cheesy ? Or would girls like it & blush because it makes their day - plus impressing them cos the guy had confidence? What happens if a girl giggles / blushes & says thank you? Is this good ? Please be honest because i really want to speak to this girl...


Answer
Hi,

It is very flattering to receive such a compliment, but some may find it a little offsetting.  It depends on the woman, but most will appreciate the compliment even if they don't know how to respond.  I suggest having something else to say once you've delivered the compliment.  This willl give her time in case she needs time to regain her composure.  

Yes, a blush, giggle and thank you is a good reaction, but if she doesn't respond in this way, don't take it personally.  Some people just don't know how to receive a compliment.  No matter what her reaction, the compliment will be remembered.

I hope this helps,

Lanay Stockstill

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