How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/meeting guys

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Expert: - 10/28/2008


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hi,
i go to an all girls-high school and i just cant seem to meet any new guys to make friends with/get together with. ive tried hanging out with some of my friends guy friends, but it just gets awckward because i dont really know them. what can i do to meet guys more easily?

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Hi Emily,

There must be guys somewhere around the school. I'm sure there are guys not far away who would like to meet girls. Ask around. Ask your friend and her guy friends. There are lots of places online where you can meet guys and you can look in your geographic area. I don't know how you will get out to see them in person, but that depends on your resources for transportation.

This link has a list of a lot of resources:

http://dmoz.org/Society/Relationships/

- there are loads of places to go on the internet where you can get a profile and even search by location as well as interest.  You can get to know the person anonymously first; read

http://www.ou.edu/oupd/kidsafe/websafe.htm

and

http://www.sanfords.net/Mom_Dear/Dating_on_the_Internet.shtml

before trying this out. Of course, even MySpace has a geographic search and groups.

Are you allowed to go to church off campus? You could meet someone in a youth group at church.

These are just some ideas. It depends on your location and what resources you have.

Good luck!

- Joyce  

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