Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 11/23/2008

Question
dear sir

question is why guys are such assholes,for girls like me who like ugly betty ,and i know ugly betty isn,t ugly,but her chacters assumes rejection the minute a guy lloks at her,

if a guy had a choice
ugly ,heavy girl who  is nice,
supermodel wh os a bitch .

i am sure he doesn,t wnat to be seen with fat,ugly girl in nighclub,when he have 100 times better.
what i am asking why is it when a girl likes guy he rejects her
but when he likes a girl HE DOES NOT GET REJECTED BY HER .

that is a two faced rule, which i thinks is very unfair,

what is girl suppose to get the guy SHE LIKES to ask her out,besides him asking out the lastest tramp.

a guy rejetets me because i am his type what ever that is,
also becasue shen,t not goodlooking enough ,not slim enough ,not tall enough, so on

blokes don,t want to be seen or consorting with girls with weigh problems ,skin problems,small girls,or ugly lokking girls,ina nighclubs they rather pick up a stunning looking who is slim,tall,perfect pins, and right bitch, but i guess guys like be treated like dirt by gorgrous looking, but an ugly betty comes along show intersted in the guy who does like him,he more or less slips away in the quiet and treated like dirt insteard.

well i have treated like dirt by guys all my life,
like left out in the rain for hour ,
or being told hold his drinks whiles he goes off kissing another who isn,t with him at all,
or being told by nerdy goofy guy he couldn,t be bother with likes of me .
all becasue i was nice to them .well isn,t that grand ,


so how is  when i like i get rejected .
but when he  likes a girls he doesn,t get rejected ?
it doesn,t make since?how is this thats not fair.

the guys i know don,t want to be seen with short fat girl in public.but they want to be seen with goodlooking ,tall,slim girl just fine and buy her things and trated her well but not the short heavy girl.

and the same guy lets on to be a nice guy with his cheap charm ,and enough aftershave to knock a shirehorse,
so called gentleman act guys like nothing but shallow fakes.sweet talking ways some silly girl falls for this act every time but she on aware for how he treats other girls in his passed,
guys like thses jerks and get way with this and the poor fat & unattractive girl has to suufer to over more rejection,
and these gyys get girlfreinds how is this fair i ask you really how is this fair,  

Answer
Louise, I've told you many times you need help. Stop writing to me under ANY name or I'm going to have you permanently banned from this group.

I'm not here for anyone that just wants a platform to bitch. I've told you many, many times that you need to get professional help. Get that help and ONLY write to me again AFTER you're in therapy. NOT BEFORE.

Best regards...

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