Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 11/13/2008

Question
hi
well the class i am no body knew him but me and he started talking at the start of the course now he just seems ingore for some reason 3 weeks down the road.i don,t get it.
well he ingored me in the hall with smerk on his face. today just walk right pass with out as much a hello.i try to make eye contact he just seem to see passed me like i am invisible.i can,t inteact with him at all i just can,t ,he very serious smiles sometimes,distance,cold, some how.
he never has lunch with us in class.he goes away.
he is very business like behaviour,ingore me completely before he used to talk to me .i don,t understand.
may be he know i like him or eles he thinks i don,t like him and he reacting to that.so i don,t know
or eles he has no interst in me which is the same old story yet again.when a nerdy reject me i have no hope in a hell of getting any guy.may be it was bad idea to like him.
my mother thinks he nice approachabily guy i don,t think so
he is cold to me
how would i interact with guy like that .i give eye conatct and nothing. i try totalk and i can,t.he so business like

Answer
Hello Ann!

Sorry, but if you want me to know what we've talked about in the past you HAVE to copy the previous messages. I simply get far too many questions every day to remember all the details of every one of them.

It sounds like this guy is either very, very shy or very, very rude.

If you want to get his attention but can't get eye contact with him, the next time he walks by you, move over right into his path so he has to stop and look at you. Then just say, "Oh, hi there!"

Best regards...

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