How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/how to show my interest

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I recently met a guy on the job that I am attracted to. He seems like a great guy to get to know. We text eachother once in a while, the texting is alywas initiated by me. Should I show him that I'm interested? I already told him in person that I want to hang out with him. He seemed to welcome the idea but hasn't set a date or time. Should I be persistent with showing m interest? If yes, what should I do? If no, where should I go to meet new guys???

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Dear Rina,

You have already shown him you are interested, by txt msging him, asking him to hang out, etc.  It does not work to pursue a man.  A little flirting is all that is necessary to show intent, and then the rest is up to him. Wait and see what happens.  

You can meet guys just about anywhere - the Internet sites, clubs, sports events, even in the grocery store.  Get out and about, keep doing what you like to do, and keep your eyes open.  For instance, one of my clients met her now husband when she decided to take SCUBA lessons.  It's great to do what you like to do and see who shows up.

All the best,
Susan
http://www.susandunn.cc/internetdatingcoach.htm
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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