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Expert: - 11/18/2008


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Hi! I started working at a new place a few months ago and I'm totally head
over heels for my manager. I really think he likes me too and I'm thinking of
getting a job somewhere else. He is single. We talk to each other alot at work
and always exchange flirty looks. I'm thinking of asking him if he wants to get
a drink after work sometime just to get a feel of what he will say. Other
managers are said to hang out with the employees and drink with them
occasionally. What should I do?

Answer
Hello Barbara!

Do it!

I don't agree that you shouldn't date someone you work with. You just need to be realistic and mature about it and agree that if things don't work out, that you'll both be professional about it.

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