Expert: Rhapsody Love - 12/10/2008

Question
How do a attract a guy that i like? How would i know if he like me to ? i never know what to say.

Answer
Kelly,

If a guy pays any attention to you, he is liable to like you in some way, though that doesn't mean he wants to be your life-long lover.

When you've found someone you think might be "the one", here are some ways to get started.:  Find a time to just have friendly conversation (at lunch, coffee-break, etc.).  You can start by talking about something you already know about him (music he listens to, something you've overheard him talking about) or you can talk about the place where you first saw him asking how long he's been coming there, how did he find it or why did he start coming.  If those ideas don't work for this situation, you could start by talking about something in the news that you heard that morning and ask his opinion about it.   You can eventually move the conversation to likes and dislikes (movies, food, music, sports, hobbies, etc.) and if he mentions he likes to do something that you also like, you could ask him if he'd like to go to that with you.  If you keep up on the latest movies, sports events, concerts, etc., then you could suggest a specific one and possibly say you were planning to go any way, so it doesn't look like you're asking him on a "date."

I hope that helps. Good luck!

- Joyce