How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/i like a guy online

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 12/5/2008


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hey.I like a guy who ive been talkin to for about 2-3 weeks now.How do i attract him ?? an recently we started texting each other on the phone.I haven't spoken to him yet. He's a friend of my brother but I haven't met him .And my brother isn't in the country now. So i can't see that happening. What do i do ?

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Dear Shweta,

That's neat that you've met someone you'd like to get to know better.  You can attract by continuing to be yourself, because already he seems interested.  The thing is that right now he is interested in WRITING with you.  How to get to meet him?  First of all, it works best if the man does the asking.  If he wants to see you and have a date, he will ask you at some point.  The best thing to do right now is to be a little less available for the writing.  Answer his emails and txt msgs, but not so fast and not so often.  You don't want to get stuck in just writing with him.  Maybe soon he'll want to call you.  

"Attracting" is not an aggressive thing.  It means letting it happen, not making it happen.

I know it's hard, but wait and see.  Let him decide and then if he's interested, he will move to the next stage.  It's okay to go flow.  

I hope he does!

All the best,
Susan Dun
www.susandunn.cc
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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