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I am 20 years old and have never been in love. I've never even had a boyfriend! I have been told that I am attractive and that I must just be too picky. However I've only been asked out three times in my life and none of them were acceptable canidates. One a known drug addict, another who thought it wise to approach me in the middle of the night at a gas station! I'm in college and have tried to meet new people but it's hard for me to do. My friends tell me that sometimes I come off as a bitch or a snob, but I'm just shy and quiet! Do I have to completely change my personality for a guy to ask me out? Help me please!
Steph,
20 years old is not old to have never been in love. I bet there are many, many other college students that have never been in love either. your story is quite common.
As for turning down the 3 opportunities you mentioned, it sounds like you did what any girl with high self-esteem would do. i support your decision not to date a drug addict!
I wasn't exactly sure from your question what it is that you wanted to know. But, i can tell you that if everyone is giving you the same negative message, and you think there may be some truth to it, then maybe it is worth investigating. If after you do so, you decide that you want to be friendlier, then by all means do so.
But, if the way you are now is working for you, then you should remain true to yourself. There is nothing wrong with being quiet.
Good luck! Life Coach Tracey
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Tracey Steinberg
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I would be happy to answer any question that involves figuring out the type of man you are looking for and/or how to have a fulfilling relationship with the great man you already know. www.LifeCoachTracey.com
Experience
I am a life coach and dating expert who has helped a countless number of women meet, date, and marry the man of their dreams and I thoroughly enjoy helping women get what they want out of life. Through my One-On-One Coaching service, I thoroughly get to know each client so I can help them clarify exactly what they want their life to be. I then create a customized action plan so they can fulfill their every dream. In addition, I offer people emergency dating and relationship advice within 24 hours through my Dating Help Now service.
If someone needs help learning how to meet other singles, I go out with them in New York City and give them on-the-spot guidance to help them improve their flirting skills through my Flirt Training sessions. Plus, I help people create online dating profiles that attract the people they want to meet through my Online Dating Consulting service.
I also host my own dating advice call-in live television show in New York City (NYC) called “Dating Help 911!™” My dating and career expertise has been featured on Fox News, CNN, The Wall Street Journal, MSN, Match.com, AOL’s Popeater, HollywoodLife.com, OK Magazine, and the New York Daily News. I also provide dating and relationship advice to large groups through workshops and classes.
Organizations
International Coach Federation
Education/Credentials
Coach Training Alliance and the Sage & Scholars Program for Coaching Singles.
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