How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/A guy I like in school

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 2/1/2008


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Okay, so I like this boy in my school. Like a lot of people I get mixed signals. One day he's totally attentive and completely friendly then the next day it seems like he doesnt even notice me. Basically all my friends think he likes me and flirts with me and stuff. But I'm not really sure. Even one of his like really good friends likes to tease us and calls us lovebirds. A few friends of mine call him my boyfriend. I mean it feels like he like me but I don't want to make the first move and I don't really know whether he likes me or not. What do I do? Do you have any advice for me?

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Dear Savanna,

Wait and see what happens.  For one thing, if people call you lovebirds, this sort of teaching will probably set him back a bit.  For another it takes boys longer to mature. I'm sure he likes you.  I also suspect he doesn't know quite what to do about it, so let him figure it out.  I don't recommend making the first move.  Also, in this case, it wouldn't do you any good.  He's got to figure it out.

All the best,
Susan

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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