Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 3/25/2008

Question
HI, i wonder if u can answer my question. Well, my story is dat there's this blond girl (popular) who some boy liked, he asked her out and she turned him down, i talk 2 dis girl sometimes and she said she realy doesn't like him, i asked him if he likes her, loads of weeks after she turned him down and he swore on his life that he don't like her, then the following day, we had maths revision and he kept staring at me and smiling, and he walked home wid me and my friends, still always smiling, then his friend told me he likes me, and the blond girl told me that she would never feel jelouse if (hyperthetically), he went out wid another girl, now i don't know wat 2 do, i want 2 attract him 'cause i like him 2, 1 of my friends says i'm 2 good 4 him and another one says he probably doesn't like me, i don't want 2 embarrase myself, but he's all i can think about, please help me, wat do i do 2 attract him and how do i make sure he likes me 2???????????

Answer
Hello Maroua!

Go spend some time with him and get to know him already! You don't have to "attract him". Just be available so he can ask you out.

Just be aware that some guys don't know how to close the deal and you may need to help him along a little. Just tell him that if he asked you, you'd enjoy doing something "wid" him sometime.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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