Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 3/11/2008

Question
well, you see... i have this guy that i like and i don't know if he knows i am there. i talked to him and he has not talked to me since and like i want to go out with him and i don't know what to do.. can you help me??

Answer
Hello Brittney!

Yes, I can help you. I'll even give you three different options:

1) Go invite him out yourself. This doesn't have to be a big deal. You can either invite him out to do something that you know is coming up in your city like music in the park, a school event, a restaurant tasting or anything else. Just invite him to hang out - very easy and low risk.

2) Make it easier for him to invite you out. The very next time you see him just walk up and start a conversation with him. Then, during the conversation mention something you like to do or one of the events I talked about in #1 above and say, "I'd probably go with you if you asked..."

3) Don't make it easy for him to invite you to go out by not talking to him any more, running the other way when you see him, pretending like you don't see him walk by, shooting him evil looks, etc.,  and wondering why he never approaches you.

Here's the reality: many guys just don't know how to approach a girl. They have absolutely no skills whatsoever. Trust me, I talk to them everyday. The easier you can make this for him the better! Be creative if you have to or just go invite him out instead. Either way, when you finally do go out with him, turn on the charm!

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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