How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/ugly duckling syndrome

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 3/17/2008


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hi susan
what is ugly duckling syndrome because i have i think.
i know how the ugly duckling felt in the story every one treat him badly i know how he feels .guys treat me like .it no wounder i havae such low self estreem because of them.
can you help me.i never bloomsed in to beautiful swan like other girls have become.i am a permented ugly duclking every a nerdy guy rejected me.i am more like ugly betty and glasses and all.
is there any help for me?

Answer
Of course there is.  Everyone is beautiful in some way.  COncentrate on your good points.  And also, as I've said before, men aren't everything.  How about your work?  And are you exercising and things like that to keep yourself in shape.  These are win-win things.  There are men who are interested in inner qualities, like a good person and a kind person, and someone who would make a good wife.  Whatever our 'looks' are - they will change.  There are other more important things to concentrate on.  
Be kind to yourself, and be positive.  

All the best,
Susan

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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