How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/Confused!

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I am a 41-year-old woman who has had very few relationships. I am attractive, intelligent, flirty, friendly and good company. I also find that i tend to fancy men who are not available in some way either because they are already in a relationship or my mind has given me a reason (on the rebound was one!), etc. I was attracted to someone recently but when i found out he was interested in me, i 'looked' again and found that i wasn't really attracted. I went on to like someone else and developed a real attraction to him but found out he was in a relationship (well rang him at home and a woman answered....). I have also joined an online dating service but have yet to find a man i like... what is wrong with me that i cannot find a man to like never mind love....please advise

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Dear Wendy,
I really recommend dating coaching for you to get this straightened out.  It is not a good habit to get into, liking what you can't have.  You need to get serious about what you want, and where and with whom you can find it.  Email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc for personal coaching.

All the best,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

Experience

I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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