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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 4/27/2008


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QUESTION: I like this guy at school. He was talking to his guy buddies about a porn movie he had seen. I (accidently) let it slip that I had seen the movie too and the men burst out laughing.

For the rest of the day, he was staring at me across the cafeteria with this HUGE grin on his face.

Umm...what was that grin for?

ANSWER: Just guy stuff.

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QUESTION: What do you mean 'just guy stuff'?

ANSWER: Just thinking about the porn stuff.  Why would you want guys to know you had watched a porn movie?

All the best,
Susan

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QUESTION: Is it wrong for men to know women enjoy porn too?

Answer
Look at the reaction you got.  Is this what you want?  It has to do with your 'reputation' at large.  Men and women both watch porn, but would you 'lead' with that on a date or getting to know someone?  Now when he sees you he thinks of porn.  Is that what you want?  Maybe you also babysit, or work in a store nights, or like to read Nietzsche, or write poetry.  There's a whole lot more going on that would be more beneficial for guys to know about you.  See what I mean?  Or are you just after sex and a one-night stand, or a guy to watch porn movies with?

It's about the impression that you make.

All the best,
Susan

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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