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Hey Dr. Neder.
They say when a guy meets a girl, within 5-10 minutes of meeting her, he can tell right away whether this girl is marriage material, or if she is just for a quick fuck until he meets something better.
You have any ideas of what criteria guys use to make this decision?
xoxo
Ana
Hello Ana!
Probably the #1 thing is whether she's a game-player or not. Game players are for sex only, women that don't seem to need that sort of thing are for more.
It's a pretty simple formula until you consider what you hear from so many female relationship "experts":
"Be evasive. Be a challenge. Don't act too interested."
"Don't return his phone calls too quickly if at all"
"Don't sleep with him too soon"
"Don't pick-up when he answers"
"If you return his voice mail use text instead of calling"
"It's good to cancel a date at the last minute - it makes him think about you"
Yes, I've seen every one of these pieces of advice being given to women, and then the women have the nerve to complain that all men want from them is sex. What dullards!
You might want to check my website (http://beingaman.com) as there are two articles there under Self Help/Local articles that will help with this question.
The first is "BAM Female Warning Signs" and the second is "BAM Female Desired Qualities".
Best regards...
Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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Literally, any question related to finding and meeting the man of your dreams. I am the top-rated expert in "General Dating Questions", "How to Attract the Man/Woman of your Dreams" and "Places to Meet People". In fact, over the past few years, I've answered over 32,000 letters from readers, have written over 700 articles, written numerous books, recorded CD's and DVD's, done hundreds of radio and tv shows and have millions of readers all over the world. If your question is particularly sensitive you can also write to me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.
Experience
I've written many books on every aspect of dating, sex and relationships. My new book, "How Women Can Approach Men" is already quickly becoming one of our best-sellers! Women have many tools at their disposal and shouldn't have to wait for "Mr. Right" to come along!
After reading some of the advice the women in this section are getting from other women, I think it's a good idea to offer a man's perspective.
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Doctor of Philosophy
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