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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 4/30/2008


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Well, kissing is sort of a basic instinct, and not much of a problem!

You need to be dating.  I don't know your circumstances, but you have to get out where there are guys who CAN ask you out  You needn't do a thing in fact it's best not to, just be pleasant and friendly with them and see what happens.  You can't MAKE a guy like you, you can just be around where he can see you, talk to you, and dating would be possible.

but any guy i meet rather some one eles and never me.i have no luck with guys at all.i  am shy ,quiet ,fat,short ,bit on the ugly looking side.
i am very worred because all the other girs can find some one all but me.i have never kissed guy in my life .some guys i find are intimatined to me there have too much confidece and are very shallow.who has more experence then me.i thnk its so unfair why others are lucky but not me.

i meet guys who say they had loads of girlfreind?i don,t know .that puts me off .because i have no experence with guys on any level.hand holding or kissing .may i was meant to be love it look i was meant to be on my own.  

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Louise,
Love comes when you least expect it.  If you keep concentrating on all this NEGATIVE that's what you will attract.  Get busy with the rest of your life, and enjoying things, as this is your life.  Some guy will come along when you least expect it, but if you are acting desperate you will drive guys away.

Susan

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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