Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 4/28/2008

Question
Hi doc :-) !!!!

Here is my ques: I m in collge and there is this guy who is my junior... I think he sort of likes me, even though we have never talked ... . .I mean his behaviour wen i m around is like He blushes wen we come face to face,  he keeps on looking at me wenever he passes me by, and wen i m in the coridor, he will go and stand nearby and watch me,  etc  ....I also like him, though I pretend to ignore him in the corridors.....



Now a few days ago, he scrapped me in orkut though he didnt know its me ( He doesnt know my name) ..... It was just a compliment on my photography skills..... I replied back by saying that :Hey !! I know u, we r in same dept "...... and so we exchanged a few scraps.... He wanted to know my identity, and i told him the names of our common friends.... I think now he must be having an idea , but still he is not sure......



College is off now and he is currently gone to his home, and I dont know when i will meet him again as this is my final semester......



Now pls tell me wat should be my next move ??


Answer
Hello N!

What's your next move? Go find someone else that you CAN have a relationship with. You blew this one. It's game-over.

If he's "back home" that means he lives long-distance. You can't possible have a long-distance relationship and expect it to work. That's just the way it is.

Go find someone local to you that you CAN have a real relationship with and then, don't play around with them (like you did this guy) until they leave.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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