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| this one guy | 10/6/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: okay there's a guy a really like who kinda knows i like him (this itch told him) and still he acts ...
A: Attraction is a subtle thing - being friendly when around him, flirting lightly (look up flirting on ...
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| Entering unknown territory | 10/1/2008 | Lanay Stockstill |
Q: So - at 23 years old, finishing college in December and currently applying to medical school, I am ...
A: Wow, it felt as if I was reading right out of my own autobiography with the exception of med school ...
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| Very new interest | 9/26/2008 | Azure |
Q: I am sick of messing up, while learning on my own what men like and what they don't. They ...
A: you don't need a dating coach, except perhaps for occasional guidance; it's not supposed to be ...
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| Early Stages in dating | 9/24/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: . How are you? It is hard to organize my thoughts because I have so many but please bare with me. I ...
A: I'm fine. Thanks for asking. Sadly I am the complicated, emotional type, therefore have a rough ...
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| looks | 9/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: i was woundering can girls who are fat and unattractive looking get a boyfreinds ,and is there any ...
A: Yes, girls that are fat and unattractive can get boyfriends. However, why are you fat and ...
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| Ugh what to do? | 9/14/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: I am in a long distance relationship with my babys father. And right now he is messing up and ...
A: Think about what you are saying here. He is indeed messing up his life - HAS messed it up. You ...
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| Exhusband | 9/11/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: My ex-husband and I were married in 2002. Last year in July his mother died unexpectantly - they ...
A: I'm sorry this has all happened. Marriages can take a toll when many crises happen at once. My ...
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| short | 9/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: i got question do guys hate short girls.when i am around a tall guy of 5ft 7" he doesn,t want to be ...
A: No. Men don't hate short women. Everybody has preferences and some men prefer tall women and some ...
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| Confused,what's should I do next? | 9/8/2008 | Azure |
Q: Dr, PLEASE HELP! I have dating my BF for a year, he was the perfect boyfriend, sweet , attentive, ...
A: it's over--in his opinion, you weren't good enough; chasing him, seeing him, having sex, hoping ...
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| i don,t understand him | 9/6/2008 | Tracey Steinberg |
Q: the guy i was telling you did go out exterme amount of girls he country lad living in the city .when ...
A: Louise, I cant tell you exactly what is in his head or what he is thinking. But, based on the fact ...
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| rejection yet again | 9/4/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: the guy i was telling you did go out exterme amount of girls he country lad living in the city .when ...
A: I know it is hurtful. It's best to move on and not try and figure these things out. Sometimes ...
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| 3 Eager Fiance's = 1 Big Problem | 8/27/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Let me start off by saying that it wasn't my intention for this quandry to happen. I've gone from a ...
A: This is one of those cases where you're going to really hate my injecting reality and are likely ...
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| 3 Eager Fiance's = 1 Big Problem | 8/27/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: Let me start off by saying that it wasn't my intention for this quandry to happen. I've gone from a ...
A: Well that's quite a dilemma, a host of riches. Except it seems to me that if any of them had ...
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| How can I find my dream man? | 8/26/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: I just recently broke up with my daughter's father because he put his hands on me. And before I got ...
A: I'm not sure what kind of time frame you're talking about when you say "recently." Time is the big ...
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| How do i find him | 8/25/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: I'm a 29 year old female and etxtremely lonely. Being single is starting to depress me. I do get hit ...
A: This isn't an easy or quick thing to do. No one's going to appeal to you, I don't think, until you ...
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| I messed up in the first stages of dating - can I win him back? | 8/16/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: The short version : I met a wonderful man who was head over heels in love me and I liked him too, ...
A: First of all I'm sorry this happened, but you may have dodged a bullet. I can't believe you behaved ...
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| lost | 8/13/2008 | Lanay Stockstill |
Q: help! i really don't know what to do. I am 25 years old, i haven't got a serious relationship so ...
A: There isn't anything wrong with you. You can throw that idea out the window. I've been in close to ...
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| Why were the 2 girls looking at me ? | 8/12/2008 | L.E. Coleman |
Q: I was working out today at the gym and after i had gotten changed , i went to the cafe bar to buy a ...
A: There's actually no way to tell what either one of these girls were thinking when they looked at ...
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| Should I keep goin with the flow? | 8/12/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: Ok so here is my situation. I have liked this man for about two years now on and off for both of us. ...
A: It sounds to me like he is not emotionally capable/available. It's not a good idea to get hooked on ...
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| I fell in love with a man I had one night stand with | 8/11/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Well, I know this might sound really stupid and crazy...But I really need your help! I would like to ...
A: Hey Lynn! No, you're not annoying. Actually "irritating" is more like it! ;) Why, oh why do you ...
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| I fell in love with a man I had one night stand with | 8/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Well, I know this might sound really stupid and crazy...But I really need your help! I would like to ...
A: Yes, I caught that mistake (he canceled the date) after I sent you the message, but the message was ...
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| I fell in love with a man I had one night stand with | 8/9/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Well, I know this might sound really stupid and crazy...But I really need your help! I would like to ...
A: Holy shit Lynn! Why in THE HELL would you actually try to create what you didn't want to have happen ...
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| College | 8/1/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am 18 and about to leave for college. I am super excited to meet tons of new people and in ...
A: Wow! So many questions! Ok, let's jump into this: First of all, college IS going to be a completely ...
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| Why are women so vicious? | 7/31/2008 | Lanay Stockstill |
Q: this has nothing to do with dating, but perhaps you can shed some insight since you are good with ...
A: It sounds like these women are betting on you not saying anything in return, and you are giving them ...
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| I fell in love with my manager | 7/26/2008 | Joyce D |
Q: I love my manager so much,so i dont know his feeling. Sometimes...it seems he want to see me ...
A: I give advice about how to have a lifelong relationship. Starting a relationship with someone who is ...
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| Douchebag! | 7/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: hes the hottest guy in our town. Tall, super huge muscles, bangin' body, nice clothes, nice Porsche ...
A: Yes, absolutely I'm saying that he's not. Trust me on this. If your description of him is accurate, ...
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| dating | 7/25/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: How to get a date with a guy? I am a little bit shy ... so it is hard for me to ask a guy out. The ...
A: First of all, if you read my column here, you know that I don't recommend asking guys out. I ...
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| Douchebag! | 7/24/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: hes the hottest guy in our town. Tall, super huge muscles, bangin' body, nice clothes, nice Porsche ...
A: Your impression of him is far different from the reality - trust me. He can't be this big a ...
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| intelligence and gender | 7/24/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: are women less intelligent than men? My mom says men have higher IQs. she says guys are smarter. ...
A: Maybe men have higher IQ's than your mom! Here's the reality: Men are far better at being men than ...
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| When is it too late for sex? When is it too early? | 7/24/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: when is too soon to have sex with a man? im not talking about one night stands or hookups or flings ...
A: Too early: when you're not ready. Too late: when he loses the ability to connect emotionally. It's ...
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| how to keep my man | 7/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: my names Anna.i have a difficult situation with my man and i need your help much! this is the ...
A: It took me awhile to understand that "smth" means "something" - that's a very odd abbreviation ...
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| willing to wait | 7/21/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am a 36 year old woman and I'm dating a 29 year old man. When we were first dating he was still a ...
A: No, there's no issue with your ages. It's only 7 years! Frankly, I'm more concerned that he hasn't ...
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| what do i do next | 7/21/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: i have been using a dating website now for sometime and i have met some lovely guys, and i have met ...
A: We can't really know his reasons for this ... and I love that phrase "pear-shaped". What's for sure ...
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| willing to wait | 7/20/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am a 36 year old woman and I'm dating a 29 year old man. When we were first dating he was still a ...
A: You bet! People DO expect fireworks in bed because that's all you hear about. When someone lacks ...
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| asking a man out | 7/20/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: !! Is there a successful way to ask a man out on a date? It seems that I'm not doing it correctly. ...
A: First of all, I'm very proud of you for doing the asking. Many women just won't make that move and ...
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| Does the "one" mean looks good one paper.. no spark | 7/16/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: .. I am 40 and am single.... But believe or not.. I am actually fine being single... I have a great ...
A: I will answer in CAPS, because that's the only way I can on this site! Hi... I am 40 and am ...
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| Winning him over | 7/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: 22f, single all my life, 200 pds. I had a brain tumour removed and have poor social skills. I want ...
A: First of all, congratulations on losing the weight and getting to work on yourself and your skills. ...
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| dating unpredictable man | 7/9/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a man for a year and a half. We live 4 hours apart, and spend ...
A: Hey Jerrie! Yes, I'm from the SouthWest (Los Angeles) so I'm pretty up on my cowboy (cowgirl?) ...
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| boys | 7/9/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: How do I get a boyfriend? I am 17 years old and I have NEVER had a bf. Why is this? I asked this one ...
A: Doesn't really work to ask guys out ... the 'embarassment' can remind you that it doesn't work well, ...
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| dating unpredictable man | 7/9/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a man for a year and a half. We live 4 hours apart, and spend ...
A: Hey Jerrie! The system doesn't let me respond to your rating comments so I wanted to do so here. ...
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