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| 3 Eager Fiance's = 1 Big Problem | 8/27/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Let me start off by saying that it wasn't my intention for this quandry to happen. I've gone from a ...
A: This is one of those cases where you're going to really hate my injecting reality and are likely ...
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| How do i find him | 8/25/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: I'm a 29 year old female and etxtremely lonely. Being single is starting to depress me. I do get hit ...
A: This isn't an easy or quick thing to do. No one's going to appeal to you, I don't think, until you ...
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| I messed up in the first stages of dating - can I win him back? | 8/16/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: The short version : I met a wonderful man who was head over heels in love me and I liked him too, ...
A: First of all I'm sorry this happened, but you may have dodged a bullet. I can't believe you behaved ...
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| Should I keep goin with the flow? | 8/12/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: Ok so here is my situation. I have liked this man for about two years now on and off for both of us. ...
A: It sounds to me like he is not emotionally capable/available. It's not a good idea to get hooked on ...
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| I fell in love with a man I had one night stand with | 8/11/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Well, I know this might sound really stupid and crazy...But I really need your help! I would like to ...
A: Hey Lynn! No, you're not annoying. Actually "irritating" is more like it! ;) Why, oh why do you ...
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| I fell in love with a man I had one night stand with | 8/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Well, I know this might sound really stupid and crazy...But I really need your help! I would like to ...
A: Yes, I caught that mistake (he canceled the date) after I sent you the message, but the message was ...
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| I fell in love with a man I had one night stand with | 8/9/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Well, I know this might sound really stupid and crazy...But I really need your help! I would like to ...
A: Holy shit Lynn! Why in THE HELL would you actually try to create what you didn't want to have happen ...
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| College | 8/1/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am 18 and about to leave for college. I am super excited to meet tons of new people and in ...
A: Wow! So many questions! Ok, let's jump into this: First of all, college IS going to be a completely ...
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| I fell in love with my manager | 7/26/2008 | Joyce D |
Q: I love my manager so much,so i dont know his feeling. Sometimes...it seems he want to see me ...
A: I give advice about how to have a lifelong relationship. Starting a relationship with someone who is ...
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| Douchebag! | 7/26/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: hes the hottest guy in our town. Tall, super huge muscles, bangin' body, nice clothes, nice Porsche ...
A: Yes, absolutely I'm saying that he's not. Trust me on this. If your description of him is accurate, ...
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| dating | 7/25/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: How to get a date with a guy? I am a little bit shy ... so it is hard for me to ask a guy out. The ...
A: First of all, if you read my column here, you know that I don't recommend asking guys out. I ...
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| Douchebag! | 7/24/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: hes the hottest guy in our town. Tall, super huge muscles, bangin' body, nice clothes, nice Porsche ...
A: Your impression of him is far different from the reality - trust me. He can't be this big a ...
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| intelligence and gender | 7/24/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: are women less intelligent than men? My mom says men have higher IQs. she says guys are smarter. ...
A: Maybe men have higher IQ's than your mom! Here's the reality: Men are far better at being men than ...
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| When is it too late for sex? When is it too early? | 7/24/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: when is too soon to have sex with a man? im not talking about one night stands or hookups or flings ...
A: Too early: when you're not ready. Too late: when he loses the ability to connect emotionally. It's ...
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| how to keep my man | 7/22/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: my names Anna.i have a difficult situation with my man and i need your help much! this is the ...
A: It took me awhile to understand that "smth" means "something" - that's a very odd abbreviation ...
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| willing to wait | 7/21/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am a 36 year old woman and I'm dating a 29 year old man. When we were first dating he was still a ...
A: No, there's no issue with your ages. It's only 7 years! Frankly, I'm more concerned that he hasn't ...
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| what do i do next | 7/21/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: i have been using a dating website now for sometime and i have met some lovely guys, and i have met ...
A: We can't really know his reasons for this ... and I love that phrase "pear-shaped". What's for sure ...
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| willing to wait | 7/20/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am a 36 year old woman and I'm dating a 29 year old man. When we were first dating he was still a ...
A: You bet! People DO expect fireworks in bed because that's all you hear about. When someone lacks ...
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| asking a man out | 7/20/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: !! Is there a successful way to ask a man out on a date? It seems that I'm not doing it correctly. ...
A: First of all, I'm very proud of you for doing the asking. Many women just won't make that move and ...
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| Does the "one" mean looks good one paper.. no spark | 7/16/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: .. I am 40 and am single.... But believe or not.. I am actually fine being single... I have a great ...
A: I will answer in CAPS, because that's the only way I can on this site! Hi... I am 40 and am ...
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| Winning him over | 7/10/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: 22f, single all my life, 200 pds. I had a brain tumour removed and have poor social skills. I want ...
A: First of all, congratulations on losing the weight and getting to work on yourself and your skills. ...
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| dating unpredictable man | 7/9/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a man for a year and a half. We live 4 hours apart, and spend ...
A: Hey Jerrie! Yes, I'm from the SouthWest (Los Angeles) so I'm pretty up on my cowboy (cowgirl?) ...
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| boys | 7/9/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: How do I get a boyfriend? I am 17 years old and I have NEVER had a bf. Why is this? I asked this one ...
A: Doesn't really work to ask guys out ... the 'embarassment' can remind you that it doesn't work well, ...
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| dating unpredictable man | 7/9/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a man for a year and a half. We live 4 hours apart, and spend ...
A: Hey Jerrie! The system doesn't let me respond to your rating comments so I wanted to do so here. ...
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| dating unpredictable man | 7/8/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a man for a year and a half. We live 4 hours apart, and spend ...
A: Yes, I think you've told me everything except for one thing: you didn't bother asking me any ...
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| stunning looks dont necessarily equal love | 7/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: hey i notice something. a lot of drop dead. gorgeous beautiful women have a really rough time dating ...
A: There are a number of causes for it. First of all, men rarely approach these beauties. Most men ...
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| impression? | 7/7/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: There was one guy I liked a lot, and I made it very clear that I was interested in him. We were ...
A: A couple of things here ... Many young men DO realize they aren't 'ready' for marriage yet, and so ...
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| Shy guy meets Shy girl | 7/7/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: There is a guy at church who I think likes me but he is shy. One day he walked up to me and gave me ...
A: He doesn't sound shy, he sounds inexperienced - VERY inexperienced! So, what are you going to do? ...
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| sex too soon? | 7/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dennis Neder. I was wondering when is it too soon to have sex with a guy? Cuz one of my friends ...
A: How rare and how unsophisticated. Is this a real scenario? Frankly, it stinks like last weeks ...
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| questions | 7/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Dennis. You know how a great sex life keeps a married couple together. Ok I was wondering, in ...
A: Sure, even a broken clock is right twice a day! In fact, it's reasonably rare that couples with a ...
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| oops | 7/6/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Hey Dennis, This is kinda embarassing. Ok I really like a guy at school. So the other day him and ...
A: Maybe it's your breath. Obviously, I don't know you so I can't say why men don't approach you. On ...
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| how to attract a man i don't often meet | 7/6/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: i have a crush on my father's doctor. i have no chance to oftenly meet him. i only call him when i ...
A: If he is interested, he will do something. That's the way men are. He's in a tricky situation, ...
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| oops | 7/5/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: Hey Dennis, This is kinda embarassing. Ok I really like a guy at school. So the other day him and ...
A: Haven't I answered this exact same question for you a number of times before this? What, you didn't ...
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| men being stolen from me | 7/4/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: It seems that other women are all getting the guys I'm interested in. If there is a guy I like who ...
A: Several things to consider here. First of all, we all sometimes lose a guy to someone else, or ...
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| drive | 7/3/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: i have completely lost in men and i have no sex drive what so ever,i just don,t have any interst any ...
A: I am sorry to hear this, and I encourage you not to be so discouraged. Sometimes it takes time. ...
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| how to attract a man i don't often meet | 7/3/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: i have a crush on my father's doctor. i have no chance to oftenly meet him. i only call him when i ...
A: How not to misinterpret? Well, when we women are interested, we read something into everything. ...
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| follow up | 7/1/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: Why is sex such a powerful bond between a married couple? Why is it so important to keep up this ...
A: I don't know how Angelina Jolie stole Brad Pitt from Jennifer Aniston, or even that she did. I ...
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| Are there any good ones left? | 7/1/2008 | Dr. Dennis W. Neder |
Q: I am a single mother of two; a fourteen year old autistic boy and a charming four year. I am 31 ...
A: A woman I know does a seminar on how women can meet wealthy professionals. She opens her seminar by ...
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| Sex and Marriage | 7/1/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: Why is sex such a powerful bond between a married couple? Why is it so important to keep up this ...
A: Yes, there is a male dating coach (or two) that use that phrase "investing." But what are you ...
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| shy crush | 7/1/2008 | Susan Dunn, Dating Coach |
Q: There's this guy at work (I'm 18, he's 21) that I like very much. The only problem is that he's ...
A: Yes, keep going about your business - great way to put it. Women make a mistake in flirting overtly ...
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