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Hi, I'm in year 12 at school and there's a guy in my class whom I really like, but I don't know how to approach him. We're in the same classes but he's in year 11 so he doesn't do the same topics as me. We don't share any friends and never have any reason to talk to each other. I would love to get to know him (more than I have learnt from just observing him) but I don't know how to approach  him. We've never really spoken, and I'm very shy. I'm afraid that if I don't make a move I might miss him. If you have any advise, i would be so grateful.

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Well at least catch eye, smile and look down (like a flirt), or if you're near him say "hi" and ask him how school is going, or what he thought of the football team, or what he's doing this summer - just any light little topic of conversation.  

You can figure out where he goes, arrange to be there, and do a little light flirting.  I wouldn't take it any further than that.  He knows where to find you, and it works best if the guy takes the lead.

All the best,
Susan

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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