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hi
i am 27 yaers old and i never had a boyfreind inmy life .i can,t make like me ,so i thnk i should give up on wanting a boyfreind it just stupid at this stage i am too,people younger then girls have more boyfreind no body ever wnated me no body ,i was ment to be alone .i was meant to be alone,i am fed up of trying and getting no where ,it a waste of time .
It has been said that if you want something too much you won't have it. you put a desperate drive energy into it, that actually drives the thing away. I'd get busy with other things, as I've mentioned several times before, keep a little place in your heart for a lover who wil likely come along once you let the stranglehold off it, and then it's a win-win. Giving up trying means giving up the negative, desperate, complaining and putting yourself down and also being angry. It means loosening up, being pleasant and open to possibilities when a guy comes around, accepting rejection as part of life, understanding that most women, at some time or other in their life will live alone ... and making the very best of things as they are. That's a win-win proposition.
This does not mean being negative, grumpy and mean when a guy comes around because you EXPECT rejection.
If you expect rejection, you will get rejected, because those energies are strong.
All the best,
Susan
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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach
Expertise
I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience
I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
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