How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/left out and unloved

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i know there is a lot of girls my age who had loads of boyfreinds all accept me.i know there is a lot guys who had lots girlfreinds.i am very shy about kissing i never even had my first kiss in my life and at stage i doubt i ever will at this atage .becasue it frighting me an i get very  nervous around guys .i doubt a guy will ever want  to kiss me.because no guy likes me that way.
a guy will never want  to kiss me never .i don,t know to to get a guy to kiss me .i don,t know how to kiss.every eles does all but me never me. while all others take it for granted like the guy who told me he had lots of girlfreinds and he is not even goolooking .please help me please guys only want to kiss stunning looking women not a plain jane like me .how will i learn how to kiss if no guy wants to kiss me the nearest thing i came to kiss was one one on the cheek by a guy and that no good.i just don,t have the backbone to make a move on a guy becuse i am so shy ,  

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Hello Louise!

No, guys want to kiss girls that they are interested in - not "stunning" women only.

Your job is to be interesting to these guys. As we've already talked about, you need to lose weight, start taking care of yourself and as soon as you do, your attitude will change - and become someone that another person will want to kiss.

As I've told you many, many times, this begins with you and your attitude.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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Literally, any question related to finding and meeting the man of your dreams. I am the top-rated expert in "General Dating Questions", "How to Attract the Man/Woman of your Dreams" and "Places to Meet People". In fact, over the past few years, I've answered over 32,000 letters from readers, have written over 700 articles, written numerous books, recorded CD's and DVD's, done hundreds of radio and tv shows and have millions of readers all over the world. If your question is particularly sensitive you can also write to me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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