AboutSusan Dunn, Dating Coach Expertise I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
Question QUESTION: Why is sex such a powerful bond between a married couple?
Why is it so important to keep up this type of marital relation between husband and wife?
(or romantic relationship, for that matter)
ANSWER: To briefly treat a deep subject ...
Well, because it sets off THE bonding chemical. It's designed to do that. It increases the emotional bonding, and bonding in all aspects. That's why you feel so dizzy, daffy, starry-eyed, and all that. It increases because it is only between the two of you. It's what gets you really bonded to that person. Brain chemicals. Sex releases "the happy chemical," and when you share that, it is wonderful. Wr talk about 'chemistry, because the intial attraction between two people, and the sustained attraction, really does involve brain chemicals.
Why keep it up? Well, for one reason, ideally you are only doing it with one another. That may be the only thing you don't share with someone else. I mean you will love your parents, kids, have friends, share drinks and meals with others ... sex alone, is for that person. Also because it's good for your health and makes you feel good. It keeps you close. It's just designed that way, and works that way.
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QUESTION: What are your thoughts on sex before marriage?
Answer If you're dating for marriage, put off sex for as long as you possibly can. And there's nothing wrong with waiting until marriage.
It's saying who you are and what you want.
Probably the #1 concern of a man when he meets a woman he's attracted to is 'would she be faithful to me.' If you hop into bed with him because he's the man for you, and you rarely or never do this, there is till no way the man can know this for sure.
Men tend to think in a binary fashion and put women immediately into one group or the other, and you want to be in the right group.
There are practical reasons as well. Sex is very im0portant at first, but if you marry there are a TON of other things - is he fun to talk to? Do you work well together you'll be building a life together? How does he treat his family? How does he handle his temper? Is he selfish? Is he fun to talk to? Can he hold a job?
All these things need investigating BEFOREHAND.
Putting it off allows other things to develop. Marriage is about companionship, compatibility, making a life together. You want to slow it down for a man you're dating, because then he will have time to think things through. Smart couples slow it down.
It's up to the woman usually to monitor the pace of the relationship and never did it apply more that "too much too soon" is a bad idea. "Save something for later"!
