How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/crushes

Advertisement


Question
hi im zoey im 14 and have a really big crush on a boy in my year he is in 2 of my classes and we recently have had a few short conversations and he added me on myspace but i dont think he really sees me if you know what i mean i really want him to ask me out but i dont know how to get him to notice me im not very forward because im pretty shy when it comes to being within 50 feet of him :-) can you help me??? love zoe

Answer
Dear Zoey,
He's probably shy too!  Crushes are hard when you have to wait and see, but that's what you have to do.  If he's actually talking to you, that's the best start.  He'll move it forward if he's interested and ready to.  Other than that, you just have to wait and see.  You have a good chance there since you get to talk to him.

All the best,
Susan Dunn
sdunn@susandunn.cc
Dating Coach
Check out the blog:  http://datingcoachblog.wordpress.com

How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams

All Answers


Answers by Expert:


Ask Experts

Volunteer


Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

Expertise

I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

Experience

I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

©2012 About.com, a part of The New York Times Company. All rights reserved.