Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 6/26/2008

Question
Hello,

I am having a hard time trying to find a man that wants a relationship.  I am 25 years old and every guy I meet say they only want sex.  It does not matter where I meet them because anywhere I meet a guy, they say the same thing.  I dont dress provocative and I am not a airhead.  I have a good job, college educated, my own house, and 2 cars.  I have never been called ugly.  I just dont understand why no one wants to be with me.

Answer
Something is wrong with a pattern here.  Not sure what.  Or else you need to "go" other places in search of men.  This isn't about you, it's about these guys.  Be glad they are letting you know up front.  This isn't the kind of guy you want to have a relationship with.  Where to find the right kind of guy?  Well, that's the big question, but don't let one apple spoil the batch, even if you seem to have bad luck in this area.  One thing to keep in mind is that men mature slowly.  These are the kind of guys where you say - throw it back into the water until it gets bigger.  In other words simply not relationship material.  Don't let yourself be discouraged.  I do hope that you are not approaching these men.  Sooner or later one is going to come along that is really available for a relationship and will ask you out and behave properly and be interested in the real thing.  So hang in there and keep your chin up!

Do contact me if you'd like coaching and to go over your game plan.  A couple of coaching sessions wouldn't be a bad idea for you, but I'd have to know more about it all.

All the best,
Susan Dunn
sdunn@susandunn.cc
Dating Coach
Check out the blog:  http://datingcoachblog.wordpress.com


All the best,
Susan Dunn
Dating Coach
Check out the blog:  http://datingcoachblog.wordpress.com