How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/looks

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mr
why is it only the good looking pepole find love . just let say the likes jensen ackles always finds a girlfreind because he good looking and the like cindy crawford can always find a guy every where and any where.the likes rosan davson always has boyfreind but not plain ,average looking girl size 16 who can,t find boyfreind any where ,it not like she dosen,t try just not giving chance all because she is not gorgeous looking slim,is most unfair it really ,why do girls like that get rejcted who are nice in personly and bit shy left out the cold why is this i don,t understand.
can you help.guys have this ideal what they want (eg)

tall
blonde
young
goodlooking
size 8
38DD boobs
long legs
blues eyes and so etc
we can,t all live up to the barbie doll image.
or the cindy crawford image.

no one give ma chance because i am total oppsite its not fair ,guys are not fair they cruel and most shallow.  

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Louise, I've answered this for you before.

It's your attitude, not your aptitude that determines your altitude.

Frankly, your attitude stinks - and directly reflects in your situation. You could have so much more, but instead, you're so connected to your own self pity and attitude problems that you have no room for love. You've filled yourself up with hate instead; hate for yourself and for others.

Until you make room in your heart for something else, hate is all you'll ever have.

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Literally, any question related to finding and meeting the man of your dreams. I am the top-rated expert in "General Dating Questions", "How to Attract the Man/Woman of your Dreams" and "Places to Meet People". In fact, over the past few years, I've answered over 32,000 letters from readers, have written over 700 articles, written numerous books, recorded CD's and DVD's, done hundreds of radio and tv shows and have millions of readers all over the world. If your question is particularly sensitive you can also write to me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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