Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 7/26/2008

Question
QUESTION: Hi there's this ridiculously handsome guy, hes the hottest guy in our town. Tall, super huge muscles, bangin' body, nice clothes, nice Porsche car, rich kid with lots of money etc. He gets all the women. he can have any woman he wants and he is very clever. and he doesn't even have to lift a finger, tons of women run up to him and hit on him daily. when he goes to bars, girls swarm him, almost begging him to take them home and have sex with them. life must be nice for him. he's about 30 years old. he's always had his share of multiple girls, and he dates and has sex with 5-6 women at a time. becuase he's always getting girls.

but its interesting... the only girls he dates... are not very attractive. They are very young, very skinny, with their skeletons almost hanging out of their body, very tiny like 4'10" or so, no boobs, totally flat, and VERY CHILD LIKE. All the girls he dates looks like they are 8 years old. it's really creepy. he looks like a child molestor.

So its weird. i mean he can get any girl. but he only dates those that look like they're in elementary school.

and whats even more sick is that he brags about it. he has threesomes and foursomes with all these really young girls and openly tells people that they like it when he shoots off wads of cum in their faces. yuck man, why is he telling people this shit anyway?

do you think it's because he watches a lot of porn?

i have heard that a common theme in porn is very young looking girls and blowing wads.

u think that could be one cause of this?

this man is very disturbing.

ANSWER: Hello!

Your impression of him is far different from the reality - trust me. He can't be this big a douchebag and get any real play. You only THINK he does! Believe me, I have these guys writing to me all the time.

As far as the girls he dates, this leads me to believe this is the only type of girl that he CAN date - not a specific choice, but even then, what business is it of yours anyway? Why do you care who he dates?

I agree that this man is disturbing, but it's because he has severe problems, not because he tells stories about blowing loads in women's faces.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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QUESTION: Sorry need some clarification.

So you're saying that he's not having sex with as many girls as he's bragging about?

Also, what did you mean by this is the only type of girl he can date. Meaning this is the only type of woman he can keep interested in him for more than a short time?

And when you said he had severe problems, what kind of problems were you talking about. That he's psychotic?

thanks

Answer
Hello again!

Yes, absolutely I'm saying that he's not. Trust me on this. If your description of him is accurate, he's female repellent.

Yes, that's what I mean about the girls he dates; although it might just also be the kind of women he's into too. It makes sense as from what you've told me, he must have very low self-esteem and thus, doesn't feel worthy of anyone that others would consider better.

I can't possibly diagnose someone from a 3rd party description. Remember, we're going off you you've told me, not my knowing this guy.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"