AboutSusan Dunn, Dating Coach Expertise I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.
Experience I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.
Organizations Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.
Publications I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.
Education/Credentials MA in Clinical Psychology.
Awards and Honors I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.
Past/Present Clients I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.
It seems that other women are all getting the guys I'm interested in. If there is a guy I like who does like me back as well, I notice one thing. Time and time again the guy I like walks away with another girl after girl.
These women are very aggressive and they pursue after the man, so they get them.
I am not as aggressive, so other women walk away with the guy I like, even if he likes me more.
But I have heard that purusing the man NEVER works out.
However these women are pursuing my man and they always win him.
So what do I do. I'm so confused. I'm tired of sitting on the sidelines!
Answer Several things to consider here.
First of all, we all sometimes lose a guy to someone else, or just simply to his lack of interest. It isn't pleasant, but we move on.
Next, losing them to another woman for what? Men often do not turn down an aggressive woman ... but the relationship may be something you wouldn't be interested in in the first place.
If he likes you more, and lets another woman pull him away, then he is a fool. He will likely learn this with time.
You don't want to lose yourself, in order to 'get' a guy. That price is too high.
I think you have written me before, and I will encourage you again to get some intensive coaching. You seem to have a lot of questions, and to be having a hard time. Everyone gets rejected, and it's up and down for most of us, until the right combination comes along.
I have seen a man being 'aggressed' by a female, give her a disdainful look and go back to the one he loves. He danced with the girl he came with, as they say. Not all men are so easily led astray from quality, but, yes, some are. They get better at making choices with age. There are also some rules you could learn, in coaching.
