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Dennis.
You know how a great sex life keeps a married couple together. Ok I was wondering, in couples that divorce, those that have great sex lives and still divorce anyway... what are the common issues that break up a couple?
Oh yeah and, if a married couple has a great sex life, and one of them still cheats on the other, could that be because they are not being emotionally fulfilled? It's possible.
Hello Linda!
Sure, even a broken clock is right twice a day!
In fact, it's reasonably rare that couples with a great sex life either divorce or separate or have cheating involved. However, it does happen. The other things that couples often break up over are money, family and children - where one person wants them and the other doesn't.
Sure, it's possible that someone is not emotionally fulfilled even though the sex life is terrific, but what you're missing is that sex and love are very much similar to each other. They are both drives - NOT EMOTIONS. That's an important distinction. If you assume that love is an emotion, you'll be looking for it as such only to find that your partner can't give it to you; but then, nor can anyone else.
What, are you writing a paper or something? This is the type of question I get when I do interviews!
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