Expert: L.E. Coleman - 8/12/2008

Question
I was working out today at the gym and after i had gotten changed , i went to the cafe bar to buy a snack & saw this girl on the rock climbing wall. As i was waiting in line, i kept glancing at the girl & everytime i did, she looked back at the same time. I thought nothing of it, but as i was leaving, another girl (probably her sis) was looking at me as she was helping her sister up the wall.
What were they thinking ? btw they were both rly pretty ...

Answer
Hi Dani.
There's actually no way to tell what either one of these girls were thinking when they looked at you. They could have thought, "here's another guy who can't keep his eyes in his head, or they simply may have picked up on your thoughts, or better yet, they may have thought you were cute too.  The bigger question you must reflect on is "what was I thinking at the time I saw them? or better yet, what was I thinking prior to coming into the bar?" In addition, there are important details to consider here. You never stated whether or not you were in a current relationship, had broken off a recent relationship, or just wanted someone in your life right now.  All of these things come into play and they are too important for me or anyone else to give out useless information. What I will tell you is this; it is a proven fact that thoughts have a magnetic or energetic dynamic(a law of attraction) to them which pulls or draws people into our reality.  The most common form of this is a synchronistic occurrence--those times when we have a thought about someone we haven't seen in awhile and they seem to show up out of the blue. Putting all that aside, I believe you already know why there seemed to be some kind of attraction with these women. What does your intuition tell you? Are you wanting someone to tell you what you already feel and know? The next time this happens, pursue it to find out where it will lead you. It doesn't matter whether or not you are rejected or accepted, right or wrong.  By stepping out you will be training yourself to be more intuitively aware of what's happening within the energetic field. Lastly, just remember that most relationships begin with the 'physical law of attraction'. That is to say, when two people meet who might be interested in each other, the body chemicals kick in. Phenylethylamine raises blood pressure and blood glucose levels and gives us a hyped feeling. In addition, brain chemicals, namely the neurotransmitters dopamine, serotonin, and norepinephrine are all affected during this initial stage of physical attraction. In other words, it is the release of these chemical that causes many men and women to flip out over each other. You know what I mean--we want to know what the other is doing, we call them 24/7 and we just can't help thinking about them.  Most of us never realize what is happening to us on a chemical level, we think it's love.  Later on, after these chemical diminish and reality begins to set in, people go on to other relationships and repeat this cycle again never realizing the affect of the physical law of attraction.  We need this physical law of attraction because without it no one would ever get together. However, as you pursue the next opportunity just keep all this in mind. It will help you to move beyond the point of just noticing when someone is looking back at you.  Who knows, perhaps you will know your soul mate when you look into her eyes.  I know this is a lot of information--perhaps more than you wanted--but you asked a very complex question loaded with all kinds of variables.