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dear sir
i was woundering can girls who are fat and unattractive looking get a boyfreinds ,and is there any tips you could do to help.because i am one of thoses girls sir.i have never had boyfreind i am 27 yaers old.i can not live up to celerbity feemale magazines .i am simple humble girls with excetional small buget of 100 euros is all i have to spend.i am very plain looking person who has nothing bad experence with guys treating me badly taking no intersted in me ,completely dismissing or some one as young as 17 yaers old.whan i was 17 yaers old no body would bother with me.i am simple ,humble ,poor girl who a liitle bit help yourself there.if you don,t me asking for some advice ,due to all my rejection i have come shell of person i am very quiet and shy with very low self estreem. from all the bad treatment guys in the past,i am really lost,guys are so shallow there very unreason and cold towards all becasue they want a girl who is young ,slim and tall beautiful.i am only 5ft 2" i need step leather to be seen
can you help me mr
Hello Joan!
Yes, girls that are fat and unattractive can get boyfriends. However, why are you fat and unattractive?
It's an unfortunate reality that men's "stock" is their power, success and enterprising nature while women's is their looks. Even if you are fat and unattractive, you don't have to stay that way. On the other hand, you don't have to live up to celebrity good looks either.
The other side of the coin is your attitude. Until you get that fixed nobody - not even me - can help you out. Your low self-esteem has absolutely nothing to do with anyone else but yourself.
You seem to blame guys for bad treatment when in fact, it's obviously YOU that are treating yourself badly with all of this. Your attitude stinks, you do nothing to lose weight or to maximize your looks.
There are three things you can begin working on right now to solve your problem.
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