Expert: Azure - 1/26/2009

Question
Hello! I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm in grade 8 at my high school and I really like a boy who's in one of my classes. One of my friends was eavesdropping on him and his friends talking (I actually told her to try to do that because she knows that I like him). Anyways, my friend told me that she heard the guy I like and his friends talking about girls in the class I have with him and she said that he said that I have DSLs. In case you don't know, DSLs means "dick sucking lips" and it's a compliment for a girl to be told that she has them. It means that a girl's lips are really big and that they would be really good for sucking dick. I was really happy that the guy I like said that because I do have really big lips and I'd love to use it on his dick! Lol! But I'm curious as to what him saying that really means... My friend told me that it's just a compliment and I shouldn't analyze it too much but I can't help but thinking that maybe he doesn't wanna be my boyfriend because he said that. Saying that a girl has DSLs might be a compliment, but it just seems to me that it would only be a compliment for a certain type of girl. And by that, I mean girls who are sluts. I'll suck the dick of the guy I like when he's my boyfriend but I'm definitely not the type of girl who'll suck off the guy I like and all his friends out of a relationship. I have some friends who are like that and seriously, they disgust me. I've heard that a lot of girls give "free blowjobs" in the boys' school bathroom and I'll just never be one of those girls. So, do you think I'm right that the guy I like only likes me in a sexual way because he said that I have DSLs? I really don't want it to be true but it just seems like to me that he would only like me for sex. I'm really confused right now... So, please help me!

Answer
the boy, like ALL boys, has a mainly sexual interest--these guys are way too young to know about or have much interest in "relationships"; as for you, at 13, you shouldn't be sucking ANYONE'S dick, even a boyfriend--you could get some sexual disease, or regret ALL such behavior when older--giving that kind of sexual pleasure isn't meant to be casually offered at such young ages, and to guys that certainly don't deserve it; if you have ANYTHING goin for you, you ought to be able to keep guys interested without "servicing" them...plus, they'll respect you..