Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 1/12/2009

Question
i'm a girl from texas, i'm 17 years young, and i need advice on whether my crush likes me or not! first of all, the boy i like is in my school and in grade 12 like me. and i'm sure he ain't taken and he's single like me. i like him so much and he don't even know it! i think bout him all the time and i can't help but just stare at him in class and just admire him... he's real cute! anyways, i was lucky enough to get the chance to grind with him at a school dance a couple of weeks ago and i'm not good at reading guys' minds but maybe you are! so, i need you to give me your opinion on whether you think he likes me or not. a'ight, so... i'm break down what happened at the school dance in some paragraphs.

well, i went to the school dance with my best friend. that was the first school dance i've went to and yeah, that means that was the first time i've ever grinded with guys. me and my friend were having a little booty shaking contest with each other when my crush actually approached me. he approached me! that should mean he likes me, right? i thought so but he approached other random girls after dancing with me so i can't really say he likes me cause of that.

so yeah, me and my friend were both bending over and booty shaking and then my crush came up behind me and slapped my ass. i've gotten my ass slapped by guys before and i know this might sound weird, but i actually like it! i always pretend i don't care but i always enjoy it. i just think it's really hot and flattering for a guy to slap a girl's ass... it's like getting a compliment! anyways, then my crush started rubbing his dick against my ass while i was still bending over and grinding with me. i continued grinding with him and i actually didn't realize it was my crush until i looked behind me!

we grinded for a long time and we even made out while i was facing him. and i had no idea before exactly how intimate grinding is until i actually experienced it! we dry humped, we hugged, we kissed, he slapped, grabbed, and squeezed my ass lots of times... and i almost jumped with joy when i looked down and saw he had a boner (i could see the outline of his dick through his pants and it was hard and pointing out). and he also rubbed my tits and pussy and i rubbed his dick (obviously, i mean through our clothes). anyways, after he grinded with me and started dancing with another girl, i was really happy and i felt so sure my crush likes me back! but i'm not so sure anymore for several reasons...

well, first of all, he grinded with other girls at the dance too but i couldn't see if he made out with them (there was too much people and it was too crowded to keep my eye on him). also, when i told my best friend bout what happened after the dance, she told me i shouldn't be too excited because she made out with all the guys she grinded with too and some of them are in monogamous relationships with their girlfriends.

now, i'm so confused... does my crush like me or not? i think grinding is really weird... me and my crush did some really sexually intimate things but i didn't know everybody does that in grinding! my best friend told me she did what i described with every guy she grinded with. so, what do you think? is it likely my crush likes me because he made out with me while we were grinding? or is it possible he has no interest in me at all?

Answer
Hello Shatoya!

Sorry, I never learned how to read minds either!

It sounds like there's some attraction there for him, but I can't possibly say how much. It seems that you should pursue this to find out.

Why not ask him to meet you after school and talk about class?

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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