How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/help..

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Hi,
How do i start? Im 33yr old seperated mother of a beautiful 5yr old daughter, the last time i dated a guy was 7yrs back before i got married. I relocated from a different country, so yes i dont have family here or friends as such. I was brought up in a conservative, catholic family, so havent actually been with nyone as such other than my husband.. But now I want to have a life n feel loved n respected for what i am, and to tell you the truth im scared shitless (excuse my language).
I dont know, i feel allianated, as though i come from a different planet when i exchange thoughts n views n values with other men, till now who ever i have met or spoken seem to just want one thing, thats sex. I dont know where im going wrong, n clearly i dont seem to be attracting the right kind of men.
Please help.. i feel im torn to shreds..
Regards , Sandra

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This happens until you meet the right guy.  Some men (and woman) are just after sex, romance or affairs.  You are not the only woman in this position!

I'd suggest you get a month of dating coaching with me, so I can go over the rules with you and what means what.  The you would not feel torn to shread or like you don't know what you're doing.  If you are interested, email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc .

The main thing is to keep at it.  Sooner or later one will come along who has something to offer.  Be ready!

All the best,
Susan Dunn, M.A.
www.susandunn.cc

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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