How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/What Should I Do?

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 10/17/2009


Question
Hey Susan!

There is this very good-looking guy that I see occasionally while I'm at school. I don't know him and he doesn't know me, but we are friends on Facebook. Even though I don't know him, I want to get to know him better, but I don't know how to approach him. I'm a very shy girl. When I see him in the halls, what should I say?

Thanks,

Brittainy

Answer
Dear Brittainy,

Well, this is a good time for you to work on your social skills to learn how to get around being "shy."  If you see him in the hall, just say "hi", then ask him something about himself or about what's going on.  Just like you would with someone else -- what class do you have now?  do you like the rain?  Have you see ____ movie?  

Working on meeting people and social skills will help you in all areas of your life.  I know it makes you nervous, but just focus on the other person.  Ask him things you'd ask someone to ask you.  People like to talk about themselves.  Keep it light, and short and sweet.  If he's interested, he'll move it along.  

You could talk about facebook ...

All the best,
Susan Dunn, M.A.
www.susandunn.cc

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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