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hello, i am 20 yrs old, in college, and have had some bad experiences with friends over the last few years cause girls have a tendency to ditch each other, I mean I have some, but not as many....and now i am seeing this guy and im afraid he will not like me cause of this...how do i explain my situation to him...cause most guys probably don't understand it...I mean most guys all get along and dont have cliches...so I am just trying to figure out how to tell him and that i am cool! lol help! thanks!

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Dear Miss Kitty,
You don't have to explain yourself.  Be confident of who you are and what you have to offer.  If he listens to some petty gossip then he isn't worth it anyway.... He will see who you are for himself and see that you are a pretty FABULOUS person..... Anything short of that = he isn't worth it!!   Good Luck...  PS.  In your lifetime you will be lucky to find 5 TRUE friends.... Keep your own "stuff" private and live your life to the best of your ability....

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I understand how much we long to find the "right one." I also know how many of my friends and family members have "settled" because they didn't believe that the "right one" would come along. I have been in both short and long term relationships and the one thing that I realized was that there was a lesson that came out of each of these relationships. I want to help you to create the most important journey which you travel. That journey is to not sacrifice yourself.

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