How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/man at work

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 12/6/2009


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There's a man at work who had (has?) a crush on me, and I like him too; however, I gave a really bad presentation (like embarrassingly bad) at the last big meeting. Now I'm embarrassed to even look at him. He hasn't been around since, and I don't know what to do if I see him. Would a man stop liking me because of a glitch like this? How do men see these situations?

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I can attest from personal experience that men can separate anything.  They "compartmentalize."  How you perform at work would not effect how they feel about you as a date.  Unless YOU let it effect you ... as in being embarrassed to look at him.  That's a generalization.  I don't know your work-relationship with this man, like on the hierarchy, but I do know, from years of coaching dating, that the biggest mistake most women make is to bring their "work persona" into the dating arena.  

Hang in there.  Be glad to see him.  Act like you always did.  Let me know how it goes.

All the best,
Susan Dunn, MA, QMHP
www.susandunn.cc
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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

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Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

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I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

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MA in Clinical Psychology.

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I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

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I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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