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QUESTION: Hi I like a really hot guy but... I looked at his facebook and myspace and friendster accounts... and I looked at his notes and his blogs...and now I'm not so sure.

Ok first of all... in every photo he has up, he has photos of himself shirtless and flexing his muscles into the camera ... he doesn't have a shirt on in a single photo ... he has about 60-70 photos like this.

Now I understand the average guy - or even a body builder - would have quite a few photos of himself up. But this is a bit egotistical, don'tcha think?

then i read his blogs and notes. he has an online diary about all the girls he would have one night stands with back in college.

in the blog, it describes how he would go to the bars at 3 am and then take home the fattest, ugliest girl he would find (he would call them fat pigs) and go home with her to her place. (i think he only picked the fat ugly ones because they were easy sex, i'm guessing, because he is an extremely studly hot guy who could definitely get any beautiful fit girl he wants, easily.)

then they would have sex and he would laugh about them. or if they refused him sex, he would get very angry. he would wait until they were asleep, made sure they were totally out, and then rub his dick hard, and ejaculate on their face and finally leave. wow.

he wrote about all the tricks he played on these bitchy fat girls and all the nasty stuff he did to them.

when he would post that stuff, all his friends on myspace would write comments about how funny it was and laugh.

most of the posts were all about girls he would have sex with. one night stands i mean. apparently he slept with A LOT of girls when he was back in college.

there was a post where he was ranting and raving about fat, ugly women who have no confidence in themselves, and about how he loves to watch these "pigs" make fools out of themselves.

OK.

so after reading all this...should I just not bother with this guy at all?

ANSWER: Hello Mary!

If you even have to ask me this question, I have to wonder about YOU?

OF COURSE NOT! Why would you still think he's dating material after all of this????

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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Remington Publications
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Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
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QUESTION: From what I have told you, and men (and women) that you have met in your lifetime, would you say this man is clinically psychotic? Crazy? deranged?

Or just a perverted man?

Someone with a mean streak?

Answer
Hello again Mary!

I would never presume to diagnose someone from a description written by someone else. I don't know what his issues are, but he seems to have them.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
President
~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.~.
Remington Publications
BAM! TV
818.334.8826
http://beingaman.com
http://beingaman.tv
Publishers of "Being a Man in a Woman's World I & II"
Producers of "BAM! TV"

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Literally, any question related to finding and meeting the man of your dreams. I am the top-rated expert in "General Dating Questions", "How to Attract the Man/Woman of your Dreams" and "Places to Meet People". In fact, over the past few years, I've answered over 32,000 letters from readers, have written over 700 articles, written numerous books, recorded CD's and DVD's, done hundreds of radio and tv shows and have millions of readers all over the world. If your question is particularly sensitive you can also write to me privately and securely at: dwneder@beingaman.com.

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