How to Attract the Man of Your Dreams/My Crush

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Expert: Susan Dunn, Dating Coach - 4/5/2009


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I don't know what to do. I have a crush on this guy at my school that is a total jerk to me but super nice to everyone else. We are both really similar, like we both love to pull pranks and we have the same sense of humor. He always makes rude comments like "Hey girlfriend!" and "How about you wear your boots tomorrow?" (When I say boots I mean UGS.)HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Dear Sydney,

I don't know how to help you with this.  Since he's around you, and knows you, and he isn't asking you out, I know it's a disappointment to you, but if he were interested, he would ask you out.  

It's a good idea not to get into the habit of liking guys who don't return your interest.  There are lots of neat guys out there, and I'd like to see you find one who is returning your interest.

All the best,
Susan Dunn
www.susandunn.cc  

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Susan Dunn, Dating Coach

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I can answer any questions regarding attracting the man of your dreams including preparing yourself, letting it happen, The Rules that work and the rules that don't, meeting him, the first date, the dating relationship, recreating a failing relationship, how to tell if he's serious or not, how to get him to marry you not just date you, romance, everything. I coach clients how to do it step-by-step, and walk them through the process. I've talked with thousands of women ... let me help YOU.

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I have had years of experience coaching women on how to meet and marry the man of their dreams. How to catch him and keep him! Also how to get him back when he runs away, or how to get him to marry you when he's committment-shy.

Organizations
Founding member of CoachVille and member of original R&D team. Former Board member and former Board chair for numerous local organizations.

Publications
I am widely published on the Internet on subjects related to dating, romance and marriage, as well as other lifeskills topics. (It isn't just about "dating," it's about YOU.) I'm rated A-plus on ideamarketers, and my articles regularly appear on websites around the world.

Education/Credentials
MA in Clinical Psychology.

Awards and Honors
I have an international coaching and consulting practice, I train and certify other coaches worldwide, and have been a regular presenter for the cruise lines.

Past/Present Clients
I have helped many, many women find the man of their dreams - and keep him.

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