Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 6/21/2009

Question
we live 13 hours away, he is recently devoriced and has said to me he is dating... we met on a dating website that he has since got off. we  keep in touch on a regular bases and is planning to meet in July. there is a 10 yr age difference (Im older).How do I flirt to see if Im wasting m time.

Answer
Hello Vettie!

You don't have to flirt to see if you're wasting your time - you ARE wasting your time.

Vettie, think about this: 13 hours away? How in the hell are you EVER going to build a real (not imaginary) relationship at that distance? Do you really think that technology is going to help you? Even worse, just imagine how many incredible guys you're going to miss right there in your own backyard that you CAN have a real relationship with by pursuing this!

Seriously, it's already game-over.

Of course, you're not going to listen to me. You're convinced that this guy is the only person you're even going to love that will love you back or some hogwash like that. At least do yourself a favor and get some education about these things. Go take a look at the short video on my site: http://BeingAMan.tv click on Video, then Self Help, then LDR's.

If you want to "flirt" with him, why not just email him some nude pictures of yourself? It'll have just as much impact (probably more) as anything else you do.

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis W. Neder
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