Expert: Dr. Dennis W. Neder - 6/1/2009

Question
hi dennis
i wanted to ask 2 questions.
first-
i wanted to ask that how much r looks important to guys when they r looking for a serious relationship
second-
if a boy stares a lot at a girl what should she think abt that .is it that the boy really likes her or is it becoz boys stare all the girls without thinking much.
thanx for ur response.

Answer
Hello Ruby!

1) Very. A woman's looks are her "currency" in relationships. That doesn't mean that other things aren't important too, but the looks are the first thing to begin everything else. That doesn't mean you have to be a natural beauty however, but you do need to maximize your looks. You need to learn to use the tools available to you; clothing, make-up, taking care of your skin, watching your weight, etc.

2) No, it's not that the boy likes the girls he's staring at at all. Men tend to be visual creatures and appreciate women visually (as per my first point.) That doesn't mean love or even interest.

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